1. Reflect calmly: In most cases, having a child is about two. Thus, we must maintain a deep conversation to make sure we both agree on having a child and we know what it means for each and for the couple. In some cases, the arrival of a child is a completely natural process in which the family fits perfectly. However, in others it produces a ‘shock’ that any of the parties has not fully assume. In this sense, it is not over-before you conceived reflect on how we will organize when the baby arrives: how compatibilizaremos work and care ?, let’s find caregiver or take you to the nursery ?, we nursery close to home or close to work ?, how do become ill ?, when are we really determined to reduce our travels and our leisure trips?
2. Talk with family and friends Interestingly a chat with our friends or relatives who have already had children and know what it meant for them if they found it easy to adapt or not. The arrival of a baby in the house can cause changes in the relationship, beyond which is the required dedication and a newborn. These changes sometimes lead to anything positive for the baby or for the development of family family tensions, so we asking our known more realistic expectations, we will know much more about what can happen and how to overcome it if necessary.
3. Economic issues: it is estimated that the arrival of a baby involves an expenditure of between 6,000 and 10,000 euros in its first year of life. Thus positions to reckon, is very likely never be the ideal time to have a child. With this in mind, it is worth to start saving a few months before, but we must not forget that, apart from the physiological needs of food and hygiene, the main thing a baby needs is love and dedication of his parents , so we can always reduce costs in the more superfluous questions.
4. Goodbye to Stress: Many women live under continuous stress is greatly increased when trying to become pregnant. The situations of tension and stress are negative for life in general and in particular for the design, so it is advisable to practice relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga.